BESTFRIEND

Hello friends! This is me again Janet :D

This time I  want  to share about friendship, about our friends or bestfriends.

This picture is me and my bestfriend, I'm on the left side and my bestfriend is on the right side.

As you can see in this picture we've been friends quiet long. And we're on the same  moment but in different time.

I really love having a conversation with someone I'm comfortable with in this kind of place, where there's a sea, a bench and trees, and when the wind blows from the sea and touched my face, and every time I breathe I taste the freshness of the air and I feel the calmness of the surroundings.

I love being with this kind of place rather than to be in high class restaurant where most I've seen is unreal.

Let's go back with the picture above, as you can see I put a year in this picture as to show the distance of time between with this two images, at this picture we're on the same moment, we are watching how the sun fall down through the mountains, it's peaceful and very relaxing.

The picture shows that we're almost on the same spot and moment but we're in different situation.
At year 2011 we talked about the future, we talked about our plans, the job we will have. We don't have any clue what future holds for us, we just live the life we have.

Year 2011 is a little difficult time for me and for my bestfriend. It's a year that we almost lose our studies because of financial issues. We're on the same situation that's why we can relate to each other. That time I never thought to give up even how hard the life is, I think our weirdness make us click together but it make us strong and it make us who are we today.

But as time passed by, our careers separate us. The communication is more less than before, most of times we didn't talk.
But it doesn't mean that we already forget each other, our communication is seldom but doesn't mean we don't care to each other.

It seems that we had a quiet long journey as friends shown at the photo in the lower side written with year 2016. It's been almost five years since 2011, we started became friends since 2010.

I can't tell that nothing has  change to us. As time goes by we've met different people. People who taught  us how to fight, how to forgive or how to understand the situations. The people we met taught us some personal improvement by socializing. While we're both busy in our careers we still trying to find time to meet  and talk about our lives.
At year 2011 we talked about the future,
At year 2016 we still talked about the future; funny right?
But as I said earlier we are in different situation, we have different plans but we still want to be connected.

And now,My bestfriend is planning to settle down and start a new life because she finally met the man of her life, I don't have any problem with that because I think her decision is just right. She is planning to build her own family, and while she's telling me her plans with his future husband I realized that she have a concrete plans, and the time is just perfect for them. I'm happy because I know she's doing well and she's happy :)

And while we're talking about the future, I found myself on the same situation way back in year 2011.
And I figure out something that no one even myself realized it before, I can say nothing has changed with me, nothing so good, nothing so bad but I feel it was annoying.
I'm on the same routine since then, but I never felt so happy.
Having conversation with my bestfriend is the best, because it gives me another idea how do I live my life.

The years has passed and we are growing old, but I still wished to be connected with my friends until our days has end in this world.


Dear reader,
Thank you for spending your precious time reading this.
I bet that you also have a friend and you cherish the friendship you have.
If you have a friend just like mine don't take them for granted because they are a priceless gift.

If you have any opinion or insights about this post feel free to drop a comment down there.
Your thought is much appreciated :)

How To Move on

We all know that heartbreak isn't that easy to deal with. Once you've experience heartbreak it will slowly kill you in many ways like losing yourself steem
which is really tough because when you lose it, it definitely change something about you, and probably you will lose yourself on track.

As a human of course i also encountered the heartaches, sometimes the medication or the healing process of moving on takes a long time, maybe days or weeks for those who is actually can control their feelings and it takes months and perhaps years to those who is really deeply in loved and yet, pained the most. Here are some tips that you may use and apply to deal with heartbreak and overcome it. This advice is from my persol experience and i can say that these advice that i'm going to share with you is very effective because i do apply it to myself.

So here we go, the first thing i did when i experienced the heartbreak is i didn't hide what i feel, i didn't keep it to myself because it won't help anyway. The best thing to do is to be open with your feelings, you better find someone you trust like your bff and share with him/her what you feel. In that way you can ease some pain, and if you feeling like you wanted to cry then let yourself cry, cry as long as you want, if you you want to shout then shout as much as you can. Don't hold back your feelings because it will make you feel more miserable and it will just lead you to self-pity moment which is so horrible. Don't do it to yourself.

Afterward, promise something to yourself. Like you won't let youself drowned with extreme sadness again, like you will be happy again and you will be much better rather than what they used to know about you, don't let people see you falling but let them witness how you fight and how strong you are. Don't stressed yourself by proving youself to anyone but instead focus on proving to yourself that you can and anything you want is possible. You have to trust yourself first, love yourself and give importance to yourself. Think all about the possibilities and never let yourself think about the negativities. Remember that there are people who still care and love you, don't forget them just because someone breaks your heart :)

Another advice is, if there's something that make you still feel sad like old pictures, etc. my best advice is delete all of those stuff or burn it. It's not being bitter i think, because if it still hurts you then it won't help you. Start a new chapter in your life, with a brand new you. Always go with something that may help you to recover from heartbreak. If it's about the place that reminds you the pain then change it, like your room, put decorations etc. If it's about the workplace then leave it, but leave it when you're ready like everything is settled down before you leave. Think about something that can make you feel comfortable and not weary so you can start a new life and an exciting future.
I know there is no easy way to overcome a heartbreak, it takes time to heal a brokenheart.
But i hope those advice will help you, because it really helps me a lot. I honestly suffered from heartbreak for six months, yeah it's a long time. It's my first heartbreak actually with my first love :D So i don't know what to do that time, so i decided to discover the things i need to do. Because first, no one will help you but yourself. :)


Dear reader,
I'm so glad you found my page and it's a pleassure to share my thoughts with you.

I hope you like it and if you want to say something and share with me feel free to drop a comment down there, it's a big pleassure for me. Thank so much and see you in my next post ;)
- Janet

How to be attractive

Hello there folks! I'm here again Jana at your service ;)
These past few days I met different people from a seminar and there is someone asked me what is my style or way to attract a man. I was really shocked at first and I terribly laugh at her, but I noticed that she is really serious about it and I think she felt a little bit ashamed and suddenly I asked her why she wants to know because me, myself never intended to attract a man - seriously :)
But even if it's a little awkward for me to answer that question I still answered it and there it goes.
This is just my personal advice, but it might help you.

So "how to attract a man?" or "how to get someone's attention?"
As a lady I think it's awkward and annoying to make the first step to be noticed by someone we admired, specially when he's really handsome and hot like every girl would be easily fall in love with him!
Here  are my few advice to get someone's attention with something unique easy way.
First, be presentable . Of course you need to beautify yourself first if you want to be attractive but it doesn't mean that you have to put so much make in your face, just apply enough make up and be more confident and always smile it makes a girl more beautiful with less make up and confidence will boost your looks or appeal. 
Second is don't be so obvious, sometimes being too showy with your feelings or admiration to a man is another reason why he ignores you.
Third, be mysterious! Yeah, sometimes being mysterious makes a man curious.
Sometimes they get attracted to those girls who looks different, I'm not telling you to weird, nerd or so whatever but what I mean there is just do the opposite things that most girls is doing. Be unique!
Like.. if most of girls is used to be showy then do the opposite, try to ignore and limit yourself  staring or doing crazy things around when he's around. I can't guarantee it will be effective but there's a big chance to be attractive for being unique.
Sometimes you really need to be unique in some things to be awesome - or attractive.
Don't follow the crowd make your own shine so others will notice!
I remember a script line in a TV series it says that " The worst thing in life is to be ordinary, because being ordinary means you are nobody "  and it really marked in my mind.
We have different uniqueness, we  are awesome in our own ways.We only have do is  to figure out what is it.

Dear reader,
I'm so glad you found my page and thank you for spending your little precious  time for reading this.
If you want to share something, feel free to leave a comment down there.
It's a pleasure to hear your thoughts. Again Thank you and see you in my next post.
Stay awesome and beautiful!

FIRST BLOG

Hi I'm Jana! and this is my first time on blogging and I'm so excited to begin my journey in publishing though I'm not an expert and not so fluent in English language.

Anyways, I'm here because I want to share my thoughts with you  and knowledge as well,

that's why I chose to used " I Will Share " in my URL, but it's not just about me it's about "us" actually.

I want to used this blog as my way to connect with the world, with the people like you who is reading right now ;) You might think that I better use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other social media out there if I only want  is to connect with the people, don't you? Yeah, it's a good idea and I already have account there and it's very useful for me also.

But, does Social media makes you really feel free on how you can express yourself?  your feelings?  Are you really free? Think about it :)

I will  share to you something, for me blog is the right place where you can freely express how you feel or what you think, or what you're interested in. It can be your alternative diary.

Another thing that inspire me on blogging is the moment I find out that most of the publishers in the online world is Indian national and they really do impressed me :) They are great! So I think I should give it a try also even though  I'm not so expert about publishing but we don't know the future yet, maybe one day I will be an awesome author :) such a dreamer right? but Nobody knows what the future holds.

I decided to make a blog because I think I can use this to express my thoughts, ideas, knowledge that you might be interested in.

Here in my blog I will share my thoughts, and you are also welcome to share your thoughts.

Here, you are free to share what you feel, and I am sincerely willing to listen and it's a pleasure for me to share with you my best advice :)

 I'm feeling more comfortable here when it comes to expressing my feelings and thoughts rather than to post it on Facebook or Tweet on Twitter and misinterpret it and criticize you.

So I'm calling the attention of all weird, nerd, jerk and all of the people around the world that who wants to share whatever they are going through in their lives.

I am Jana and I will be your friend here and I promise to you that I will stay connected, and you won't  be alone. My page is open for you  :)

Feel free to leave a comment down there and I will tell you more about myself on my next post, maybe my post now is a little messy but I'm still excited to improve it and make it better.

See you soon my friend!!